You’re probably wondering, “What the heck happened?”
The hard part was supposed to be finding the girl, right?
And you did. You found her. Or, at least you thought you’d found her.
But now it all seems to be falling apart and you’re not sure how you got here…
… or where to go next.
The problem is that we’re told that all we have to do is find the right one and everything else will fall into place.
That you’ll figure it out as you go and that love is all you need.
If you’re here, it’s because you’ve learned that it’s not that simple.
You’re wondering where that girl you married went. Where did the respect go? The connection? The sex?
You want it back. Well, you think you probably want it back but you’re definitely sure that if it keeps going like it’s been going, you can’t handle it anymore.
There’s got to be more than this.
And maybe it would be easier to start again. Maybe the next one will be the right one.
But you don’t want to be that guy. The guy who fails. The guy who can’t make marriage work.
You want to make it work. But you don’t know how.
And something has got to change… soon.
Take a breath.
It’s not too late. There is a path to a better marriage for you to follow.
But, before we go anywhere, you’ve got to get this one thing:
Marriage isn’t easy.
In fact, it’s the furthest thing from easy.
And it was never meant to be easy.
That’s why most marriages are just barely getting by. Y’know, living like roommates or friends instead of lovers. No sex. Just slowly drifting apart as the years pass.
Or staying together for the kids or loyalty or obligation or some other b.s. reason to keep suffering.
It’s not supposed to be this way.
Here’s the deal:
Marriage is hard. It will expose every part of you that you thought you could hide. And you’ll see every part of your spouse that they were trying to hide.
Nobody can upset or hurt you like your spouse. Nobody can disrespect you like your spouse.
That isn’t easy.
Nothing worth having is.
What I can tell you is that when you dig into this work your life will change. There is hope. There is joy . There are tears as you and your spouse connect in ways that you feared were lost forever.
You can fall in love with your spouse again.
You can heal the damage and experience something better than you ever thought possible.